• Make Yourself a Metaphor

    Make Yourself a Metaphor

    Metaphor is a mystery nestled somewhere near the heart of language. Why do we so often think this way, uniting unlike things with our words—the abstract with the concrete—and feeling satisfaction rather than dissonance as a result? Metaphor allows us to describe what would be otherwise indescribable—the minutiae of our emotions, the pinpricks of our Read more

  • Lawrence Welk Is Dead: Confession of a Bad Daughter

    Lawrence Welk Is Dead: Confession of a Bad Daughter

    My thanks to Texas A&M’s Front Porch Journal, where this essay was published. I have to break the news to my mother.  She has been chatting her way through her usual Saturday evening phone conversation topics: her friend Shelby’s forty-five-year-old son who has lost his job and moved back home with his mother; the new Read more

  • What If Your Mother Tells You Not To?

    What If Your Mother Tells You Not To?

    I first read Maxine Hong Kingston’s memoir The Woman Warrior when I was a graduate student. At that time, something important struck me about Kingston’s message. The first chapter opens with the words of the author’s mother: “You must not tell anyone what I am about to tell you.” Immediately following these words, Kingston reveals Read more

  • A Brief Rant about Writer’s Block

    A Brief Rant about Writer’s Block

    I am tired of the term writer’s block.  Please don’t misunderstand.  I empathize with writers who are stuck, who can’t move forward with their writing, who struggle to get even a few words on the page.  I feel for writers who are lost or discouraged. The problem I see with the term is that it Read more

  • How to Use Family Photos to Fuel Your Writing (Part 2)

    How to Use Family Photos to Fuel Your Writing (Part 2)

    In this post, I continue my exploration of using childhood photos as a catalyst to writing memoir by experimenting with analyzing some of my own childhood photos.  The first task when faced with stacks of family photos that are largely alike in their presentation of a single person or people, most often facing the camera Read more

  • How to Use Family Photos to Fuel Your Writing (Part 1)

    How to Use Family Photos to Fuel Your Writing (Part 1)

    Memories provide a catalog of subjects for your writing. Especially if your genre is memoir, delving deeply into your past is a natural way to find your subject and focus.  If you write about family, specifically about your relationships with your parents or siblings, tapping into your earliest memories can reap a storehouse of material.  Read more


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